Relive the memory of something that once solved a problem for you or made you happy and satisfied. Store this memory in your mind so you can find it easily.
1. Recall a positive memory
Relive the memory of something that once solved a problem for you or made you happy and satisfied. Store this memory in your mind so you can find it easily.
2. Look around. Find the focus point.
Choose a place that is slightly blurred or has clear boundaries. A dot on the fabric, a light switch, a shiny doorknob or a single flower will be great.
2. Look around. Find the focus point.
Choose a place that is slightly blurred or has clear boundaries. A dot on the fabric, a light switch, a shiny doorknob or a single flower will be great.
3. Focus on this spot…breathe in…hold…slowly breathe out.
Breathe with the prefix. Keep your shoulders moving. Do not strain your eyes.
3. Focus on this spot…breathe in…hold…slowly breathe out.
Breathe with the prefix. Keep your shoulders moving. Do not strain your eyes.
4. Increase your focus...inhale...as you exhale...whisper “Focus”.
Finish whispering each time you finish exhaling.
4. Increase your focus… breathe in…
as you exhale…whisper “Focus”.
Finish whispering each time you finish exhaling.
5. Keep breathing…whisper “Focus”…
until you see a point change. Some people see a change immediately; some take a little longer. Increase your focus and continue breathing.
5. Keep breathing…whisper “Focus”…
until you see a point change. Some people see a change immediately; some take a little longer. Increase your focus and continue breathing.
6. When SIJ appears around the point... invoke your event.
A faint glow of light is a sign that you are seeing and thinking with more concentration and less emotion. Recall your positive memory from step 1. Experience it again.
6. When SIJ appears around the point... invoke your event.
A faint glow of light is a sign that you are seeing and thinking with more concentration and less emotion. Recall your positive memory from step 1. Experience it again.
Have you noticed a change in how you feel?
Calmer? More in touch with yourself?
Have you noticed a change in how you feel?
Calmer? More in touch with yourself?
Stress Free is an exercise that allows you to calm down in 6 steps. Original work by David Wark has been modified and is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 4.0 International License.
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